I recently have started studying Wicca, and all the other Wiccans I've met seem to wear long flowy skirts, peasant tops, and gobs of giant jewelry. I feel out of place at public events, because everyone is wearing things that look like Ren Faire garb, and I'm really more comfortable in a polo shirt and a pair of Dockers. I don't even like jewelry. Do I have to start dressing differently now?
Well, you can if you want to. There’s no Wiccan Membership Book, however, telling you that it’s time to drop your khakis and polo shirts and exchange them for flowing robes and lots of black eyeliner. However, just like in any other religion, Wiccans and Pagans are people.
Some people like jeans and t-shirts, others like pink tutus, and some like to dress like they’re always at the Renaissance Faire. It’s entirely up to you what you wear. Be who you are, and be happy about it.
A word of advice: just because you’ve got a newly discovered spiritual path doesn’t mean everyone you come in contact with wants to hear about it. You don’t have to wear a pentacle the size of a dinner plate just because you’ve decided Wicca is the right path for you. If you don't dig jewelry, don't wear it. You're not required to wear it simply because you're now Pagan.
The really important thing to remember, though, is that your spirituality is not defined by what you look like on the outside. Coloring your hair black and wearing fairy wings doesn't make you Pagan, any more than wearing sensible shoes would make one a Christian. Your belief system and practice is something that comes from the inside. Don't worry about feeling out of place if you're wearing your business casual attire at a Pagan event - chances are there's at least five other people looking at you with envy, wishing they had dared to show up in something from the LL Bean catalog.
