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Reader Submissions: What's the Best Advice You Can Give a Seeker?

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For many new people coming to Pagan spirituality, the information out there can be a bit overwhelming. However, for a lot of us, at some point we had an "a-ha" moment, when someone offered us crucial advice -- you know, that one thing that you wish you'd been told sooner. What advice have you received that you can share with Seekers hoping to learn about modern Paganism and Wicca?

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Be True to Yourself

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Finding a Common Goal

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Challenges Make Us Stronger

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Stay On Your Path

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Don't Believe Everything You Hear

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Finding Your Own Path

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Learning to Adapt

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Feeling the Divine Within

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Cutting Ties and Walking Away

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Leave Your Assumptions at the Door

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Don't Be Afraid to Question

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Let Your Actions Speak For You

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Forget About the Labels

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Think Outside the Box

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